I heard this saying for the first time from my ex-manager cum friend during some team activities. And this was the saying that came to my mind by the end of the day.
The Gang of Four, super senior, senior, classmate and me, who share a bond of being associated with same college and company, have been planning to meet for quite sometime. When I say “sometime”, it means more than three years. We didn’t have very ambitious plans, a simple lunch meet would also work for us. The universe was just not in our favour. If the time suited for three of us, it would not suit the fourth one. We tried to materialise the plan multiple times but it just didn’t happen.
N declared that she took an off today post Diwali, I stated that I too took an off, S joined saying that she too took an off. SS couldn’t resist the temptation and she too took an off. There couldn’t be a better opportunity than this to make our long pending lunch meet happen, when everyone has taken a leave from work. We just had to grab the opportunity and make use of it before we lose it.
Everyone immediately agreed to the plan and we met at N’s place from where we headed to the Heart Cup Coffee, Gandipet. We chatted about everything under the sun, work, life, kids, tensions, pleasures, priorities, wishes, dreams and practicalities. We didn’t need to find solutions to any problems. We just wanted the other person to hear us out , that was more than enough for us. No judgements, no decision making, no concrete plans, just a flow of conversations and thoughts.
Simple lunch followed by a filter coffee at Old Madras Coffee with loads of chatting, cherishing old times, thanking our blessings and making plans for next meet-up.
What could be more rejuvenating than this ?
